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HEALING THE HURT WITHIN (1st edition)

Understand and relieve the suffering 
behind self-destructive behaviour

Author: Jan Sutton

 

Pathways (How To Books)
Published: 01 March 1999

ISBN: 1-85703-299-3

 

 

Reviews of 1st edition

Personal communication

Internet review

Professional reviews

Customer Reviews

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Personal communication

"I found this book a great source of comfort and support—it is the only true friend I have in the world."

 

"THANK YOU for an excellent book – I’ve been self harming for about 20 years and your book said all I could hope to say – I want to buy everyone I know a copy !!"

 

"The book is beautifully presented and, consequently, very easy to read. I found the exercises relating to the case studies very useful, as they helped to highlight points that would otherwise have been overlooked. I liked the diagrams; particularly the cycle of self-injury (fig. 8), which clearly illustrated how I feel and how those feelings get out of control. It will be an excellent book for both professionals and people with personal experience of self-harm."

 

"I was interested to read about dissociation. I often feel as if the self-harm is happening to someone else. Sometimes I feel pain, but usually not, and the cutting seems unreal, even though I can see the blood. It was interesting that so many others viewed self-harm as a compulsion."

 

"Mum read your book and said it was excellent ... it helped her understand more about self-harm."

 

"Absolutely excellent—very impressed. I think you have researched it very, very well, and covered everything in considerable depth, honestly and directly, but with incredible sensitivity. It is also a very readable book – vital to those who self-harm, with lots of hope & support offered throughout."

 

Charlotte – Internet review


This is a self-help book which helps you understand and stop self-harm. This is the best book which I've read on self-harm so far. Throughout the book you get to read other people's experiences, and see that they have got better, which helps you see that it is possible to stop self-harming.

The 'cycle of self-injury' in Chapter 4 is something that you'll find hard to argue with. It lets you see how events, thoughts and feelings lead up to the act of self-harm.

 

There is a section on the different kinds of therapy which explains what each one entails and their effectiveness. This is both useful for those already in therapy and those who haven't tried it yet.

 

The section on negative attitudes from A & E staff shows just how few people understand the reasons behind self-harm. It also shows how giving a person a label can change people's opinion of that person.

This book starts with explaining what self-harm is and finishes with giving you suggestions on how you can stop harming yourself. There is quite a big focus on abuse being the reason why people start to self-harm, and as more than half the people who self-harm have been abused, this is understandable. Though if your reason for self-harming isn't abuse, don't worry as this book will still be just as helpful to you.

 

My overall view of this book is that no self-harmer should be without it.

 

Professional reviews

Marjorie Orr, Director, Accuracy About Abuse
'This book is a giant leap forward in making self-harm understandable to professionals and self-harmers alike.'

 

Stress News
'will bring much comfort to the reader, be informative for family & friends and can be used by practitioners...'

 

William Stewart
"A ground-breaking book, in the subject material and presentation. It's easy to read, yet helps the reader understand the complex nature of self-harm. The life stories are incredibly moving. I felt totally engaged."

 

William Stewart (author of A-Z of Counselling: Theory and Practice, Stanley Thornes, and a range of other counselling and self-development books).

 

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5 out of 5 stars Profoundly moving, informative and compassionate January 11, 2003

 

Reviewer: A reader from Northern Ireland

 

Healing the Hurt Within is an excellent book. It highlights, through a combination of personal testimonies and research, the deeply rooted
emotional pain and life experiences that drive the need to self-injure.
Written in plain and jargon-free language, and presented in an easy to read format, this compassionate and sensitive book has much to offer those caught up in the cycle of self-harm, and those seeking to understand and support them. Well worth the money, and well worth a read in my humble opinion.

 

2 out of 5 stars Not very helpful, June 30, 2002

Reviewer: A reader from Norway
This book focuses too much on self-injury caused by serious trauma, like sexual abuse. Little or no material on cases where the cause is hard to find.

 

4 out of 5 stars New insight, May 25, 2002

Reviewer: A reader from UK

This book provides a sensitive review of the experiences of someone who engages in self-harm. Perhaps however it is slightly too focussed on sexual abuse as the (frequent) cause of self harm, and cutting as the (frequent) consequence. Never the less, the author provides excellent information for people working with self-injurers including graphical formulations that cannot help but guide the clinician, and the self-harmer, in understanding the, (their), strange action of self-injury from a much clearer perspective. I certainly recommend it.

 

5 out of 5 stars Really helped me, February 28, 2002

Reviewer: lwk2001 from England

This book provided me (as a cutter) with excellent help, reassurance, understanding and information. It really explains why people self-harm, results from surveys of self-harmers, beautiful poems about the subject and exercises for self-harmers to try out.

 

5 out of 5 stars This book is written with warmth and compassion

June 28, 2000

Reviewer: A reader from Wales

Healing the Hurt Within is written from the heart and Jan Sutton has the gift of boldly taking a controversial and complex subject and rendering it interesting and easily understandable. At the same time this is no cold, clinical or judgemental work, but one written with warmth and compassion. It takes the reader on a journey into the lives and emotions of those who have experienced first hand the traumas that can lead to self-harm and the paths they are exploring in order to recover.

 

5 out of 5 stars A great book for self-injurers with eating disorders January 22, 2000

Reviewer: A reader from Newcastle, England

Healing the Hurt Within is an ideal book for those who self injure, particularly those who also have an eating disorder or alcohol problem. Sutton deals with what is a delicate subject with great sensitivity. The book is particularly easy to read, with a number of contributions from self-injurers, including their poetry. I believe that this is a book that could change lives, if only more people knew about it.

 

5 out of 5 stars Excellent, insightful, readable- and British

June 1, 1999

Reviewer: A reader from London

It took me a while to find this excellent book on self-injury, because Amazon online have not given it a subject link as they have the other books on self-mutilation. Very similar to Tracy Alderman's excellent self help book for people who hurt themselves, the exercises in Jan Sutton's book are less threatening and easier to complete, and she relates self-injury to other self destructive behaviours. Many people struggle with more than one self destructive coping mechanism, alternating between ED behaviour and cutting, for instance, which makes Sutton's views especially interesting. Great to have a British list of contacts and resources, and wonderful to have a book that informs and doesn't condescend.

 

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A Must-Read for Self-Injurers

June 22, 2001
Reviewer: A reader

Jan Sutton writes with warmth and poignancy regarding the phenomenon of self-injury. She takes a difficult, misunderstood, and "shameful" subject, brilliantly picks it apart, and exposes the roots in a non-judgemental and caring way. Jan uses personal stories, drawings, and poems to illustrate the "whys" of self-injury and gets to the heart of the matter in a way that is both empathetic and compassionate. "Healing The Hurt Within" has become a bedside companion to further understanding myself and why I self-injure. This book is a must-read for those of us who self-injure and anyone who lives with or works with self-injurers as well. I highly recommend it!

 

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